How To Stop Trying To Please Everyone?

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People pleaser- well, this is something which everyone should refrain themselves from becoming. The more you try to please people around you, the less you are giving yourself of what you actually deserve. Remember that not everyone in this world will give back to you as you give to them. So stop giving away the discounts to everyone all the time. Know that there is a fine line between being kind, helpful to others and to someone who is always looking for your help but would quickly turn their backs to you when you are in trouble.


There are so many books we read and learn during our education but none of them teaches us the importance of self-love and care. Yes, we as humans should first learn to love ourselves, whoever we are and whatever we are including all our goods and faults. Once you do this, then reach out to love other people be it at work or at social gatherings. And since there are many types of people you'll come across through your entire lives, you'll know whom to befriend and whom to keep distant from yourself.

Here are few tips to help you stop trying to please everyone:

1) Know when you say 'yes' despite not wanting to do something.
2) Prioritize things so you can remember when to say no.
3) Take small steps.
4) When you are burdened with work beyond your scope, bargain for good deadlines so that you don't stress out yourself.
5) Ask advice from someone.

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